Wednesday, March 9, 2011

It's The Game Of Love; Seven Steps To Make It Going


It's the world of competition, and everybody try their best to get the best. Ever wondered why, may be one amongst you, have got the best girl? Well, the secret is not good looks or a well-defined six pack, but the fact that women simply get attracted to certain personality traits and flock to men who possess them.

So, here you go. Here I unravel some qualities, possessing which, may not take a lot of time for you to put yourself among the shoes of one of your friends whom you had always envy. Qualities that a lot of fairer sex looks forward to in the opposite sex. Read between the lines: 

1. The Confident Guy: 

Confidence speaks, all the time. Be the one in the front and not in the back. Girls, needless to say, love to see tons of confidence oozing out of them. 

A confident man who looks totally secure and sure of himself. He is assertive in public and gives off an aura of power and control. In a relationship, he doesn't get jealous of other men; he doesn't feel threatened by his girlfriend's male friends or co-workers. 

2. The Romantic Guy: 

It works all the time. Romance is the name of the game my friends. It has, and always will be. The biggest turn on is to see your partner asking for more, and this applies just for everything. A woman loves to feel appreciated, and the romantic guy makes this happen. He uses romantic gestures to show her he is thinking about her. As an added bonus, she feels free to reciprocate and act on her own romantic tendencies. 
Getting a bunch of flowers for your loved ones, or a pack of chocolates, are anything but sweet and simple gesture of how romantic you are. 

3. Artistic Guy: 

Let your imaginations go flying. Cross the borders and work on creativity. Remember, Every woman wants to feel unique and special and there is no better way to make her feel this way than to use her as your muse or your source of inspiration. 

The artistic guy is spontaneous and lives for the moment. Often, he will use his creativity to woo her, such as with a song he has written about her or a painting he has made for her. 

4. The Foreign Guy: 

Women often choose this kind of guy if they are curious about the world, but most of the appeal comes down to a fascination with dating someone from another culture. 

He comes from a faraway exotic country and he might have a cute accent or a unique way of seeing the world. His social customs and everyday behaviour can be a little quirky, but he always manages to come off as uniquely charming. 

5. The Free Spirit Guy (aka the Bad Boy) 

Speak your mind - no matter what the consequences are, but do that, always. Every woman wants a bit of a rebel. She loves his carefree attitude and hopes that it will rub off on her too. The bad boy spirit adds an element of youthfulness to the relationship and she loves to try taming him.

The free spirit guy goes where the wind takes him - and the wind usually takes him on some kind of wacky adventure. 

6. The Intelligent/Witty Guy 

Intelligence sparkles temptation, and the latter is very much more than the former. An intellectual connection is a big part of what sustains a relationship and if you can show her that you've got that, she'll be hooked pretty quickly. 

He instigates conversations that are intellectually stimulating and listens to what she has to say in response. He makes her laugh with his clever sense of humour and has an uncanny ability to make politics interesting. He can shoot the breeze with her for hours and it will never get boring. 

7. The Considerate Guy 

Last, be considerate. No body wants to see you to be the Brutus. Have a lot of empathy and mean what you say. One must have a lot of consideration for the people around. That , at least, to your partner will mean a lot. Small considerate steps may actually make a huge-huge difference in what or how she takes you. It's your ball game after all. Play it smart.

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